Using Dirty Talk to Drive Your Partner Wild in Bed
Dirty talk is definitely a turn on for most men and women, but inhibitions can make it impossible to open up and let your partner know how you really feel. If you want to incorporate some naughty pillow talk into your sex life, then these tips will help you let go and express your feelings.
Finding the Words
Talking dirty to your partner doesn’t mean that you have to say anything that you are uncomfortable with. In fact, it is often simpler to just begin by telling your partner that you like what they are doing, or by telling them exactly what you want them to do. This can be harder than it sounds, especially if you are feeling shy, but with a little practice you will soon find that you can open up in the bedroom and talk to your partner.
If you simply don’t know what to say, then turn to the professionals by checking out an erotic movie, book or magazine that has stories in it. You will find that there are many different styles of talking dirty, including both completely erotic and slightly erotic. Don’t be afraid of sounding silly, your partner will like hearing how much they turn you on, and they will let you know if they don’t enjoy it!
Use Adjectives
No, this isn’t a grammar lesson, but if you want to turn your partner into a passion machine using dirty talk, then you need to be able to describe what you hear, see, taste and feel with clarity. Describe exactly what you like, and don’t be afraid to tell your partner that they are exciting and sexy. Look at your partner when you talk to them, as well, and be sincere.
After sex is also a great time to tell your partner how you feel, and allow your partner to do the same. You will experience greater intimacy if you tell your partner how much you appreciate their efforts, and listen to their opinions on the experience.
Practice with Your Partner
If you are trying to overcome shyness, then work with your partner by using erotic words and phrases when you aren’t having sex. Begin by thinking about the things that turn you on about them, and then tell them as you cuddle together. You can turn the light off if you are too shy to talk while looking directly into their eyes. The idea is to open the lines of communication, so that you can talk to them during sex.
If your partner also has inhibitions, then give them a turn to speak, too. Once you both are comfortable using erotic language, then you will easily be able to talk dirty during sex. If your partner already has experiences using their words during sex, then learn from them. If they are telling you something that they like, then return the favor. You may be surprised at how simple it is to be naughty in the bedroom with just a little practice.
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