Making Foreplay The Most Important Part of Sex
Sex is often spur of the moment, but that doesn’t mean that you should rush through foreplay every time you enjoy an intimate encounter. Foreplay can turn an ordinary night into one that you won’t forget, and these tips can help you make the most of your next night alone with your partner.
Why Extend Foreplay?
Arousal begins to happen almost immediately, but most men and women are not fully aroused for nearly a quarter of an hour after beginning foreplay. You will want to spend plenty of time looking for your partner’s erogenous zones, which can be located anywhere on the body. Men often get most of the responsibility for initiating and extending foreplay, but women are also responsible for their partner’s pleasure.
Pleasing a man is often simpler than pleasing a woman, but remember the men are visual and like to be stimulated by what they see as well as what they are feeling. Try putting on silky lingerie, lacy underwear, or a costume that is sexy the next time you are ready for an intimate encounter. Your man will love seeing you in these outfits, and will become aroused more easily.
Oral Sex
Oral sex is also a good way to make foreplay more exciting. For something new, consider using a new position, such as lying side by side to initiate oral sex. Some positions, such as the woman on top with easy access to the genital area, are far more comfortable than a tradition man on top position for oral sex since the woman will be able to control how she engages in oral sex. You may also want to try alternating positions to control orgasm, so that one partner does not climax too quickly.
Massage
Massage is one of the simplest and most effective types of foreplay, and is something that even the shyest of partners is sure to enjoy. For a truly relaxing massage, try warming the oil that you are going to use slightly before beginning. Also, try not to rub too roughly or quickly. The key to a great massage is taking your time, and enjoying your partner’s body throughout the massage.
Prostate Massage
Men have a small area inside the anus that is about the size of a walnut, which can provide intense arousal. In fact some men can reach orgasm by having their prostate massaged. If your man is willing to engage in anal play (not all men are open to the idea) then use some basic precautions, such as use plenty of lube, to make the experience one that is pleasurable.
You will want to take it slow when using prostate massage during foreplay, as well. Look for the prostate about three inches into the anus, where you should feel a small bump. If your man is uncomfortable, then try again later. Some men have very deep feelings about anal play, and may take a while to warm up to the idea.
Why Extend Foreplay?
Arousal begins to happen almost immediately, but most men and women are not fully aroused for nearly a quarter of an hour after beginning foreplay. You will want to spend plenty of time looking for your partner’s erogenous zones, which can be located anywhere on the body. Men often get most of the responsibility for initiating and extending foreplay, but women are also responsible for their partner’s pleasure.
Pleasing a man is often simpler than pleasing a woman, but remember the men are visual and like to be stimulated by what they see as well as what they are feeling. Try putting on silky lingerie, lacy underwear, or a costume that is sexy the next time you are ready for an intimate encounter. Your man will love seeing you in these outfits, and will become aroused more easily.
Oral Sex
Oral sex is also a good way to make foreplay more exciting. For something new, consider using a new position, such as lying side by side to initiate oral sex. Some positions, such as the woman on top with easy access to the genital area, are far more comfortable than a tradition man on top position for oral sex since the woman will be able to control how she engages in oral sex. You may also want to try alternating positions to control orgasm, so that one partner does not climax too quickly.
Massage
Massage is one of the simplest and most effective types of foreplay, and is something that even the shyest of partners is sure to enjoy. For a truly relaxing massage, try warming the oil that you are going to use slightly before beginning. Also, try not to rub too roughly or quickly. The key to a great massage is taking your time, and enjoying your partner’s body throughout the massage.
Prostate Massage
Men have a small area inside the anus that is about the size of a walnut, which can provide intense arousal. In fact some men can reach orgasm by having their prostate massaged. If your man is willing to engage in anal play (not all men are open to the idea) then use some basic precautions, such as use plenty of lube, to make the experience one that is pleasurable.
You will want to take it slow when using prostate massage during foreplay, as well. Look for the prostate about three inches into the anus, where you should feel a small bump. If your man is uncomfortable, then try again later. Some men have very deep feelings about anal play, and may take a while to warm up to the idea.
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