Making Foreplay the Main Event
Intimate encounters are more exciting when you take your time, and really become passionate before initiating sex. If you are looking for new ways to make foreplay the main event, then you are in the right place. This guide will show you some innovative new positions that you can use, and give you some great ideas for your next night with that special someone.
Start Early
Foreplay is often reserved for the moment preceding sex, but that is often too little for most, especially women who can take up to fifteen minutes to become fully aroused. You can begin foreplay in the morning, before you even get out of bed by caressing your partner, kissing them, and cuddling closely. Remember to leave before initiating sex, however, or you won’t get the full effect of all your hard work later!
You can also consider sending a sexy text message, email or note to your partner that will get them excited about your evening together. Even the smallest thing can turn your partner sex drive into overdrive if you choose carefully. You don’t have to be overly erotic, and you won’t have to send nude photos through email, either. Just think about the little things that they really enjoy, and mention how much you want to do that to them to enjoy a fully aroused partner in the evening.
Bring in Outside Help
Toys are great for foreplay, especially when you both love adventure. Anal beads are good for both women and men, since men have a prostate gland that is highly pleasurable located in the anus. Remember to buy two sets, however, and wash them after each use. Vibrators, feathers and even handcuffs are also excellent options when you are looking for new ways to spice up foreplay and make it more interesting.
Hit the Right Spot
Both men and women enjoy foreplay, but avoid going below the belt until you have spent some time exploring the rest of their body. The mouth, ears, back and legs are all zones that can be explored. You may be surprised to find that your partner has erogenous zones on the back of the knees or becomes aroused when you give them a slow back massage. Remember to watch your partner’s reaction as you explore their body, so that you know what really arouses them.
Oral sex is also a great way to enjoy foreplay. Women have the ability to climax multiple times, so think about scheduling a little time to devote to oral sex the next time you feel like spicing up your relationship. Instead of stopping after the first time that your partner climaxes, simply slow your pace to arouse her again and she will be willing to return the favor within a few moments.
Positions
You may know the basic positions for oral sex and foreplay, but the next time you are planning a special event, think about changing your routine. Standing up in front of your partner is often more comfortable, and is also very arousing, as well.
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