Couples Guide to Safe Voyeurism
Voyeurism is defined as becoming aroused when seeing others in the act of sex, or in the act of disrobing. Voyeurism can be a safe sexual fantasy that couples can easily indulge in with a few basic rules in place. Extreme voyeurism is illegal, and should be avoided, but most people enjoy mild voyeurism with a trusted partner every now and then. Here are some ideas that you can use to indulge your fantasies for a totally new sexual experience.
Porn and Voyeurism
Porn, both movies and magazines, are one of the most socially acceptable, and safest, ways to enjoy a little voyeurism. You and your partner can have some fun visiting an adult shop to find movies that both of you are interested in. There are choices that range from soft porn, which does not show penetration, to videos that show all aspects of adult sexual encounters. Make sure you choose something that you are both comfortable with, and if you aren’t sure, then choose soft porn to begin with.
Ask for a Show
If you are excited about watching your partner get undressed or aroused, then ask them for a show. You can stand in the hallway, pretending to “peek” as they get undressed and shower or you can watch as they change clothes for bed. Make sure that you have discussed this with your partner, however, or they may be upset that you are watching them without their permission!
You may even want to masturbate while you watch your partner. As long as you get the OK from your partner, this is a simple way to indulge in voyeurism. Your partner will like knowing that you are turned on by them, and you will be able to fulfill one of your fantasies.
Being Watched
Some people fantasize about being watched, and are willing to ask their partner for help in filling this fantasy. If you live in a house with a fenced in yard, or you are sure that your neighbors can’t see you, then you may even be able to have your partner watch you from outside the window. Be careful when watching from outside, however, since it is illegal if anyone else can see you.
You may also want to have another person, or two, watch you and your partner. This is a tricky subject for some couples, but many find it is a great way to enjoy voyeurism. Decide beforehand whether or not the other couple is invited to join in. Setting some basic ground rules when inviting others into your bedroom is the best way to avoid hurting your partners feelings, and respecting their wishes in regard to what acts can be performed around others.
Communication is the key when you want to include mild voyeurism into your sex life. There are many safe ways that you can fulfill your fantasies, so that you and your partner both enjoy the fun. Couples can also include others in on their sexual experiences for a new and exciting way to enjoy voyeurism, as well.
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