A stay at home date can be just as entertaining as going out, and you don’t even have to put on your best outfit to have a great time. You and your partner can enjoy anything that you like, from long, hot bubble baths together, to listening to tunes on the radio. These seven stay at home date ideas will help you get inspired to spend more time in.

1. Grab an adult’s only board game, and start playing. Whether you prefer naked Twister with your partner, or a game of strip poker, there is something for everyone. You can also check out the huge selection of arousing commercial board games. With games based on everything from sex secrets to sexual positions, you may find you never want to leave home for a date again.
2. Become your partner’s servant. This is an especially appealing game if you like role playing, and your partner is willing to try something new. You can even invest in a maid’s or butler’s uniform if you really want to make an impression. Make sure you have all the wine and erotic foods you can think of, such as oysters, strawberries, and chocolates.
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Giving you partner a sexy strip tease is a fun way to bring the spice back into a relationship. Giving a strip tease requires that you forget about your inhibitions for a little while to perform for your partner, so remember to put on something sexy and let your confidence take over. If you think you are sexy, your strip tease will be an exciting way to start an evening of sexy fun in the bedroom. Here are ten great ideas to help you plan and perform for your other half.

1. Pick something sexy to wear, making sure that there is enough clothing to take off. Sexy lingerie, high heels, or even your regular clothes with sexy panties or boxers underneath are all good for a strip tease. Wear whatever makes you feel super sexy, and your confidence will give you the boost you need to perform.
2. Don’t rush through the performance. The point of a strip tease is to build the excitement, so try to make the dance last for at least a few songs. Take your clothes off slowly, one item at a time to really excite your partner. Wear at least three of four different items, such as garters and stockings, underwear, and high heels.
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Tantric massage is aimed at not only the body, but also enhancing the emotional and spiritual connection between you and your partner. Traditional tantric massage is intended to activate the body’s chakras, or what is considered the center of energy in the body. There are seven chakras that you need to know about to use Tantric massage, and these tips will help you find them and deepen the bond you have with your partner.

Enhancing Sex with Tantric Massage

One of the main reasons to learn Tantric massage methods is to increase intimacy with your partner, but the methods can be used anytime that you want to enhance your sexual experience. To begin using Tantric massage, you need to familiarize yourself with the techniques involved. There are two methods traditionally taught: The Yoni massage, and the Lingam massage. The Yoni method is the method of massage intended for women, while the Lingam massage is used for men.

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Spicing up your sex life can be as simple as giving your partner an erotic massage. There are some simple ingredients that you need to have on hand for a great massage, as well as some basic steps to keep in mind to ensure you get the results that you are looking for.

Set the Mood

An erotic massage can happen anytime that you have an hour or so to spare, but when you take the time to prepare yourself, your area (such as the bedroom), and your partner, you will notice better results. First, prepare your partner a hot bath, making sure you have set out any supplies they need to pamper themselves. Keep them company during bath time if you wish, or go and light candles, dim the lights, and warm the massage oils while your partner prepares.

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Role playing is one of the simplest ways to spice up your sex life, and it also one thing that is easy to discuss with your partner. If you are new to role playing, then you may be wondering what you need to do to incorporate this exciting hobby into your sex life.

Introducing Role playing

There are several ways to introduce role playing. One thing that you can do is to bring the topic up during a romantic time. You may find that your partner is more open to the topic when they are already aroused, but in some cases you may find that it has the opposite effect, so introduce the topic tactfully. You may also want to simply purchase your partner a costume for role playing, and give it to them as a gift. Even if they don’t like the idea right away, they will have something to use in case they change their mind later.

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If you know someone that you want to make a real connection with, then one of the best things that you can do is to learn the basics of creating an intimate atmosphere. These tips and hints will help you create a feeling of intimacy, even when you are out in a public location with dozens of other people.

Look and Listen

Body language is the key to flirting, so make sure that you make eye contact and really listen to your date. If you find that your mind is wandering while they speak, then you will want to reassess the situation to be sure you are really focused on the evening and your date instead of other aspects of your day. Also, turn your body in toward theirs, so that your date can tell that you are really interested in them and what they have to say.

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Dirty talk is definitely a turn on for most men and women, but inhibitions can make it impossible to open up and let your partner know how you really feel. If you want to incorporate some naughty pillow talk into your sex life, then these tips will help you let go and express your feelings.

Finding the Words

Talking dirty to your partner doesn’t mean that you have to say anything that you are uncomfortable with. In fact, it is often simpler to just begin by telling your partner that you like what they are doing, or by telling them exactly what you want them to do. This can be harder than it sounds, especially if you are feeling shy, but with a little practice you will soon find that you can open up in the bedroom and talk to your partner.

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One of the most common problems for men is performance anxiety, a problem that can cause both erectile dysfunction and premature ejaculation. If you have performance anxiety, you know how embarrassing it can be to try to please your partner, but thankfully there are some things that you can do to ensure that both you are your partner are happy in the bedroom. These ideas will help you learn to control your anxiety, and please your partner, as well.

Forget the Stereotypes

One thing that gives men anxiety in the bedroom is penis size. Believe it or not, most women are less concerned about penis size than they are the man behind the penis! In fact, there are several things that women find more physically pleasurable that an extra large penis, including talking dirty, learning how to hit her hot spots, and asserting your dominance in the bedroom playfully. Women love being with a man who is really into them, and often find that far more attractive than anything else.

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Sex and intimacy are linked, but not everyone knows that self confidence can have a huge impact on your intimate relationships. If you want to feel more attractive, then you will want to begin by working on your own levels of self-confidence. Not only will you feel better about yourself, you will see a definite improvement in your sex life.

Do Something Nice

The first thing to consider when you want to boost your self confidence to improve your sex life is to think about what you can do to make yourself feel good. Manicures, new clothes or lingerie, or even exercising regularly are all things that can help you feel more secure about your body and can improve the way that you feel. You don’t need to spend a lot of money to boost your self confidence. Sometimes, simply making some time to focus on yourself is enough to make you feel sexy.

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You don’t have to go overboard on sexy lingerie, videos or sex toys to improve your sex life. In fact, there are a few simple, inexpensive things that you can do to help you add some spice to a boring sex life. With a little time and creativity, you can impress your partner and bring passion back into your life.

Make Your Plans

If you need to improve your sex life, then you need to make a plan. First, make sure that you schedule a time that both you and your partner will be relaxed and open to a night (or afternoon) of romance. Rather than trying to fit the special evening into a workday, you may want to plan the night on a holiday weekend, so that you have plenty of time to spend with your partner. This will allow you to build intimacy and rekindle the emotional connection between you and your partner, so that you aren’t trying to rush through sex to get ready for the next day.

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