Giving you partner a sexy strip tease is a fun way to bring the spice back into a relationship. Giving a strip tease requires that you forget about your inhibitions for a little while to perform for your partner, so remember to put on something sexy and let your confidence take over. If you think you are sexy, your strip tease will be an exciting way to start an evening of sexy fun in the bedroom. Here are ten great ideas to help you plan and perform for your other half.

1. Pick something sexy to wear, making sure that there is enough clothing to take off. Sexy lingerie, high heels, or even your regular clothes with sexy panties or boxers underneath are all good for a strip tease. Wear whatever makes you feel super sexy, and your confidence will give you the boost you need to perform.
2. Don’t rush through the performance. The point of a strip tease is to build the excitement, so try to make the dance last for at least a few songs. Take your clothes off slowly, one item at a time to really excite your partner. Wear at least three of four different items, such as garters and stockings, underwear, and high heels.
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Seduction is one of those sex terms that you have heard about, but that seem to only be for people who are looking for a one night stand. Seduction is, in fact, a tool that you can use in long term relationships, to meet someone new, or to gather up the courage to ask that girl or guy that you have watched longingly out on a first date.

Boost Your Confidence

Confidence and cockiness are two different things entirely. A confident man or woman is sincere and realistic, while someone who is cocky often appears rude and annoying. If you are interested in someone, having a high self confidence is just what you need to make the first move toward seducing your love interest. To boost your self confidence, you can use positive thinking techniques that allow you to focus on your successes and victories, rather than shortcomings or failures.

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Married couples often have the problem of letting their sex life slide to the wayside in order to deal with day to day obligations and responsibilities, but there are several good reasons to put your partner first in a committed relationship. These ideas will help you bring new interest into the bedroom, and turn on that spark once again.

Reconsider Your Options

Committed couples, whether married or not, often fall back on the same old positions and ideas in the bedroom, using only what has worked to achieve orgasm in the past without considering new ideas. This is a common mistake, and one that can easily lead to boredom and even apathy in the lovemaking department. Taking the time to think about new ideas to incorporate into your sex life that excite both you and your partner is a good idea, and so is discussing the options with your partner.

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Busy couples often find that the first thing to be sacrificed in the face of challenging time constraints is their sex life, but with a little planning you can easily find the time to reconnect with your partner. These simple techniques for making time for your partner, and your sex life, can help you reclaim the passion in your relationship even when you don’t have tons of time.

Planning Your Love Life

Even though planning may not be as passionate as spontaneity, there are some major benefits to making a date (and keeping it!) with your partner. The most important thing in any relationship is to feel valued and respected by your partner. By planning a child-free date night at least once a month, you are showing your partner that you value their companionship. This is an important aspect of any romantic relationship, especially when you rarely spend time together alone because of other obligations. If you do have to cancel, make sure that you immediately reschedule your date night for the next few days.

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Building your sexual relationship is a vital part of your marriage or partnership. There are a few simple things that you can do to ensure you and your partner are connecting sexually, even when you both like totally different things. These ideas will help you and your other half become more sexually aware of each other, so that you can build your sexual relationship and feel comfortable expressing your desires to each other.

Be Open to New Ideas

First, take each suggestion concerning sex that comes from your partner seriously. Even though you may not be entirely open to their ideas, allow them to express their needs and desires without making fun or joking about them. This will allow your partner to feel comfortable talking to you, without worrying about what you may think about their ideas. If you don’t like the idea, say so in a gentle way. By respecting your partner and their ideas, they will in turn give you the same respect.

Set the Mood

Although most of your sex life will be pretty spontaneous, there is always room for a romantic evening to increase intimacy in your relationship. Take the time to go to dinner or to cook your spouse’s favorite meal, and put flowers and candles out. Even if this doesn’t really sound appealing to you, your partner will love the effort you have put into the evening. Don’t forget to send your kids to the sitters for the evening so that you and your spouse have plenty of time to spend with each other.

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