With everything from light bondage, biting, and hair pulling, naughty sex appeals to thousands of people. There is an art to performing these acts, however, since you won’t want to be too rough, or too gentle, with your partner. There are also some simple, creative ways to make sex more interesting, ranging from role playing to using sex toys.

Open Communication

When you want to begin using one of these naughty sex techniques in the bedroom, talk to your partner. Tell them what you like, and how you like it. For example, if you like to have your hair pulled during sex, then tell your partner how rough you like it to be pulled. If they are explaining what they like, make sure you listen. You may like things rougher or gentler than your partner, making communication key to success. If you aren’t sure how rough they like for you to be, then you will want to be gentle. If they like rougher sex, they will let you know.

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If you feel stuck in the bedroom, and are using the same position over and over, then you may want some inspiration to try something new. Even by changing position slightly you can experience deeper penetration, which is pleasing for both partners. This simple guide to sexual positions is a good way to spice up your sex life quickly.

A Twist on the Missionary Position

The missionary position is one of the most commonly used in the US, but it just isn’t a sexual position that provides a lot of excitement or gratification for most couples. Next time you have an intimate encounter, you may want to try the reverse spoon. This position offers deeper penetration for couples, and gives both partners easy access for clitoral and nipple stimulation.

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Adult movies are a great way to spice up sex, and to learn new techniques for the bedroom, but there are several types of movies to choose from. When you want to bring adult movies into your sex life, then you need to know the basics that you have to choose from and how each type can benefit you personally.

Soft Adult Movies

Also called “soft core porn”, these movies generally are less physical that a typical adult movie, even though there is definitely full frontal nudity and sexually charged action going on. These types of adult movies are an excellent choice for couples who are new to incorporating porn into their sex life, and who may not be sure about which type of adult movie is right for them. You can generally find soft porn on late night cable channels, as well, so you won’t even have to make an investment to try this type of movie out for yourself.

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Women have long heard of the benefits of Kegel exercises, but now these simple exercises can actually work to give you and your partner more intense orgasm. Kegel exercises are done by simply exercising the muscles in the vagina, and with enough practice you will be able to fully control the contractions of the muscles during intercourse for great sex.

Anatomy of the Vagina

Your vaginal muscles are layered, meaning that there are many rows of muscles within the vagina that can be exercised. You can eventually learn to control these muscle groups individually, which gives you control over which ones that you would like to contract during sex. While this will definitely make sex more pleasurable for your man, it will also give you more sensation in both the vagina and the clitoris, as well.

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The male g-spot is the prostate gland, which is located within the anus. Men may even be able to achieve orgasm and ejaculation solely through stimulation of the prostate gland using the Tantric methods. To use the Tantric method of massage, you will want to follow these basic, simple steps.

Begin Slowly

If your partner has agreed to Tantric prostate massage, then you need to know the basics of Tantric sex. Tantric sex and massage are intended to open up the lines of intimacy and communication, so that you and your partner can have a more fulfilling sex life and relationship. If your partner agrees to Tantric prostate massage, then you are in a trusting and open relationship, both sexually and emotionally. You will want to pay close attention to the signs your partner gives you during the encounter, and take your time while communicating.

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Spicing up your sex life can be as simple as giving your partner an erotic massage. There are some simple ingredients that you need to have on hand for a great massage, as well as some basic steps to keep in mind to ensure you get the results that you are looking for.

Set the Mood

An erotic massage can happen anytime that you have an hour or so to spare, but when you take the time to prepare yourself, your area (such as the bedroom), and your partner, you will notice better results. First, prepare your partner a hot bath, making sure you have set out any supplies they need to pamper themselves. Keep them company during bath time if you wish, or go and light candles, dim the lights, and warm the massage oils while your partner prepares.

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Group sex isn’t for everyone, but there are some couples that are intrigued by the excitement. This guide will help you determine whether or not group sex is right for you and your partner, and give you pointers if you decide that you are ready to begin exploring.

Communicate With Your Partner

Deciding to join in on group sex, whether a threesome or more, is a decision that both you and your partner need to make together. If they aren’t interested by join in because you are, then there may be some resentment later that can cause major conflicts in your relationship. Try discussing all of the aspects of group sex together, such as what you like about the idea and what you don’t like. Take your time and move forward when both partners are ready.

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Role playing is one of the simplest ways to spice up your sex life, and it also one thing that is easy to discuss with your partner. If you are new to role playing, then you may be wondering what you need to do to incorporate this exciting hobby into your sex life.

Introducing Role playing

There are several ways to introduce role playing. One thing that you can do is to bring the topic up during a romantic time. You may find that your partner is more open to the topic when they are already aroused, but in some cases you may find that it has the opposite effect, so introduce the topic tactfully. You may also want to simply purchase your partner a costume for role playing, and give it to them as a gift. Even if they don’t like the idea right away, they will have something to use in case they change their mind later.

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Married couples often have the problem of letting their sex life slide to the wayside in order to deal with day to day obligations and responsibilities, but there are several good reasons to put your partner first in a committed relationship. These ideas will help you bring new interest into the bedroom, and turn on that spark once again.

Reconsider Your Options

Committed couples, whether married or not, often fall back on the same old positions and ideas in the bedroom, using only what has worked to achieve orgasm in the past without considering new ideas. This is a common mistake, and one that can easily lead to boredom and even apathy in the lovemaking department. Taking the time to think about new ideas to incorporate into your sex life that excite both you and your partner is a good idea, and so is discussing the options with your partner.

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Nothing is more pleasing than knowing you have a great sex life, but many men feel as though they are missing something in the bedroom. Great sex is different for everyone, and this guide will help you let go of your expectations and find out what really works for you and your partner.

Let Go of Stress

Stress and performance anxiety can have a huge impact on your sex life and the way you feel about it. Try to let go of the day and focus on the moment during sex by becoming immersed in what you are doing. Some recommend using a synchronized breathing technique where you and your partner practice breathing in and out at the same time. This will allow you to become more involved with the experience, and forget about the day at the office.

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