With everything from light bondage, biting, and hair pulling, naughty sex appeals to thousands of people. There is an art to performing these acts, however, since you won’t want to be too rough, or too gentle, with your partner. There are also some simple, creative ways to make sex more interesting, ranging from role playing to using sex toys.

Open Communication

When you want to begin using one of these naughty sex techniques in the bedroom, talk to your partner. Tell them what you like, and how you like it. For example, if you like to have your hair pulled during sex, then tell your partner how rough you like it to be pulled. If they are explaining what they like, make sure you listen. You may like things rougher or gentler than your partner, making communication key to success. If you aren’t sure how rough they like for you to be, then you will want to be gentle. If they like rougher sex, they will let you know.

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There are hundreds of different fetishes that make sex interesting and unique, and thousands of people who have a fetish. If you have a particular fetish that you want to introduce to your partner, you may feel shy or hesitant about bringing it up, but you may be may be surprised to know that in a trusting relationship your partner may be open to making your fantasies a reality.

What is Your Fetish?

Having a fetish is common, but most people have a fetish that is related to the human body. For example, you can have a foot fetish, or a hair fetish. Most fetishes are mild, and are easily controlled through normal sexual relationships. Other fetishes are less common, and can be difficult to talk about. You may feel embarrassed to mention your fetish, or you may fear rejection or ridicule. There are some fetishes, however, that may seem outrageous but are actually very, very common.

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Voyeurism is defined as becoming aroused when seeing others in the act of sex, or in the act of disrobing. Voyeurism can be a safe sexual fantasy that couples can easily indulge in with a few basic rules in place. Extreme voyeurism is illegal, and should be avoided, but most people enjoy mild voyeurism with a trusted partner every now and then. Here are some ideas that you can use to indulge your fantasies for a totally new sexual experience.

Porn and Voyeurism

Porn, both movies and magazines, are one of the most socially acceptable, and safest, ways to enjoy a little voyeurism. You and your partner can have some fun visiting an adult shop to find movies that both of you are interested in. There are choices that range from soft porn, which does not show penetration, to videos that show all aspects of adult sexual encounters. Make sure you choose something that you are both comfortable with, and if you aren’t sure, then choose soft porn to begin with.

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Adult movies are a great way to spice up sex, and to learn new techniques for the bedroom, but there are several types of movies to choose from. When you want to bring adult movies into your sex life, then you need to know the basics that you have to choose from and how each type can benefit you personally.

Soft Adult Movies

Also called “soft core porn”, these movies generally are less physical that a typical adult movie, even though there is definitely full frontal nudity and sexually charged action going on. These types of adult movies are an excellent choice for couples who are new to incorporating porn into their sex life, and who may not be sure about which type of adult movie is right for them. You can generally find soft porn on late night cable channels, as well, so you won’t even have to make an investment to try this type of movie out for yourself.

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Married couples often have the problem of letting their sex life slide to the wayside in order to deal with day to day obligations and responsibilities, but there are several good reasons to put your partner first in a committed relationship. These ideas will help you bring new interest into the bedroom, and turn on that spark once again.

Reconsider Your Options

Committed couples, whether married or not, often fall back on the same old positions and ideas in the bedroom, using only what has worked to achieve orgasm in the past without considering new ideas. This is a common mistake, and one that can easily lead to boredom and even apathy in the lovemaking department. Taking the time to think about new ideas to incorporate into your sex life that excite both you and your partner is a good idea, and so is discussing the options with your partner.

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Role playing is one of the most common ways that couples add spice to their sex life, and there is nothing more satisfying than living out one of the favorite fantasies with the person in your life. The first step to role playing is open communication; not everything that you are interested in will interest your partner, and vice versa. Here are some ideas to introduce role playing into your sex life using communication and cooperation.

Talking About Role Playing

Sex and intimacy always mean opening up and sharing your fantasies with your partner, an idea that is especially important when you want to introduce role playing in the bedroom. Talk about your fantasies, and listen to your partner’s ideas, too. Even though you may not always really be interested in some of their ideas, you may want to take turns with role playing scenarios to keep both you and your partner interested. Try adding some costumes on occasion to make the scenario seem more realistic!

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